welcome to the kingdom of the nighttime's sweet reign!
about me!hello my lovelies! my name is reign, and i go by raven as well. my pronouns are she/her. i am queer and i am genderqueer. i am sapphic, a soft butch-femme bi lesbian, as well as a pan lesbian. additionally, i am also aroace! while my experiences with queerness are more specific than that, those are the broad labels with which I am most comfortable <333i am autistic. i also have adhd and fairly severe RSD. this means i often struggle with social cues and criticism, which is difficult to navigate in the online world. please be patient and kind with me and know that I care deeply about being respectful and being the kindest and best person I can be, and I am doing my best <333i am a deeply caring person. i love to laugh, love, and be kind. kindness is the most beautiful thing in the world. that is the most important thing to know about me. i love love with all my heart, and so wherever i am, i do my best to embody that. this means you can always message me if you need advice, support, or encouragement; you can always feel safe to be yourself around me without judgement. the only people i judge are those who are bigots, exclusionists, and who wield unkindness as if it's a personality trait. if i'm ever unkind, it's because i am in a bad place and am not handling it professionally, or someone has hurt me and i am letting them know.i love to sing, play violin, cello, and piano, write poetry, songs, and novels. i also enjoy baking, doing jigsaw puzzles, coining queer terms, and discusss sociological concepts, especially intersectional queer issues. i love sharing my queer worldviews with people who actually understand me. the queer community has many flaws and i will not hesitate to address them, but at the end of the day it is my home and my family. queers fight for each other and have each others' backs- and as long as you are not a bigot, then I will always have yours.next page
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my gender-i am genderqueer. this word is the most beautiful word that has ever existed to me. genderqueer is my home. but it is also difficult. the core parts of my soul, my being, my genderqueerness, are too deep to be translated into the spoken word. below is the best i can do at describing them.
artemisapphia: a genderqueer experience where one’s gender is mystically divine in a deeply personal way as following- one’s gender is the divinity of the sun and moon portrayed together in the sky, the celestial reign of the realm of the moon and the night, and the realm of the sun and the day- and all in a sapphic, femme/butch way. one’s genderqueerness is the depiction of the sun, the sun’s realm, as a butch divine being who compliments the moon, the stars, the night sky, and their realm, a femme divine being. one’s genderqueerness is the personification of the night sky, or celestiality, as a femme divine being/goddess who compliments the god of the sun and its realm, a butch divine being/goddess/god. the divinely beautiful colors, concepts, aesthetics, and deep meaning of the sun and moon as each others other half, a butch sun god of the day who is the other half, the compliment, the love, of the femme celestial goddess of the night, and the glorious harmony of their two realms complimenting each other in celestial eternity. this label is deeply personal to me and though i tried my best to put it into words, it is infinitely beyond words too. It is mystical, divine, celestial, beautiful, it burns with the orange, golden, and red ember of the daylight and the inky, deep celestiality of the night sky. the colors of the flag below perfectly represent the physical feeling and visualization of this genderqueerness.
astrosea- a gender that is the sweet romance of the red rose beneath the deep blue divinity of the celestial domain of the night sky. it is the sweet taste of the divinity of the night sky, of the romanceful remedy that is the red rose's royalty. it is the gentle sweetness of a starcrossed love story, a story of love and roses written in the night sky. it is too sweet and beautiful for words, o that beloved sweet rose, o a rose by any other name would still smell as sweet, o the embrace of long lost lovers becoming one amongst the stars, together forevermore in the night sky. this gender is related to red roses in a romantic way, the night sky, red rose meadows beneath the night sky, starcrossed lovers, the romance of both red roses and starry night skies, seeing stars in your lover’s eyes, being with your lover among the stars, the concept of being in love with the stars, you and your lover becoming stars or constellations together, next to each other, in love in the night sky, having a body made of the divinity of the night sky, having stars in your eyes, giving red roses to your lover beneath the stars, the 🌹and🌌emojis, and the quotes ‘a rose by any other name would still smell as sweet’, ‘we are all born of stardust and to stardust we will return’, and ‘the will of the stars brings us together forevermore’!
stellereni-
a gender that’s like serenely peaceful music playing under a beautiful, starry night sky. coining link.
twilerenia-
a gender that is like peaceful music playing serenely at twilight. coining link.
serenilexic-
a gender that is/is related to the words 'serene' and 'serenity'. coining link.
willolexic-
a gender that is/is related to the word 'willow'. coining link.
astradulexic-
a gender that is/is related to the word 'stardust'. coining link.
all the following are my links and shit! tumblrs, gender hoard, etc. :)